Thursday, April 24, 2008
Should i? Can I? Will I? Shall I? Am I? Must I?
Yesterday Night went East Coast.
the scenery was beautiful! Especially at Night!
I did not cross the 'memories boundaries' which we walk before.
i step back when i reaches there and U-turn.
What shall i do to make myself stand firm n not keep wobbling?
We promise to hold hand in hand and walk up the staircase.
Every step we walked up, we met alot of good and bad things
we will always take the effort to look back at the stairs we climbed on.
But as days n weeks goes by, we dont even bother to look back
and just pulling each other up unwillingly.
Im glad we managed to climb to storey 6 plus.
and again
without hesitating
without looking back
eu decide to jump down to storey 1 and start looking for another
leaving me at storey 6+
dunno if i shud jump down too?
or continue standing at that storey.
Is this a retribution?
Because i've hurts someone badly before
without considering his feeling and
now it happens to me.
issit true?
Isnt it ridiculous?
I noe i shouldnt have done it!
But i just love doing it!
Did something goes wrong somewhere?
I tried to hide from eu!
Shud said i've never wanted eu to noe.
but the uneasy feeling just came out unknowingly
eu can feel it too!
im surprised!
In the end, i Pour to eu!
thinking maybe eu would knock my sense up,
thinking maybe eu would reprimand me
but i was totally wrong!
eu actually told me if it was eu, eu would done it too!
I admit at that moment
i was surprised by ur replies
i even have this thought that im doing the right thing ( at that very moment)
But the next thought was, i was wrong!
As i said, i just want to do it!
eu told me to go with the flow.
Yes! I will!
But believe me, ill not let the matter turn worsen!
And becos of this, i feel much related n closer to eu!
i've found out that there's nothing i can hide from eu!
becos i would pour to eu eventually
i dun care if it was my evil, kind, bad n good thoughts n actions!
i would just want to pour to eu!
and ONLY YOU !
im not afraid that eu would said
"why have eu become laidat? Cant eu just stand up and be strong?
Cant eu just wake up? Cant eu just be the right hand i noe?"
im not afraid at all!
Becos i noe,
whatever actions I do
eu would stand in my shoes and
eu would understand i do it for certain reason.
And eu are waiting patiently for me to get back to the shore to where eu are standing and gave me a hand!
Am i right to say this?
I can understand eu are also LOST.
Eu dunno how to help me up too
Just do it ur own way gal!
lOvees!
How to deal with break-up?
People who have been out of love say,"love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop."
But tears are usually not enuff to chase away pain that accompanies a breakup.
When the person eu love and have spent so many happy times with
suddenly leaves ur life,
eu may feel as if ur whole identity has been shattered- eu dont know who eu are any longer
eu may feel lost,
and feel like eu could never recover from the pain ever again.
but do keep this in mind;
"there will always be sunshine and even rainbow, after the rain."
So until then, here are some things eu can do,
or how eu can help ur friend to go thru e painful post-breakup period easier.
1) Facing the Music
First of all,dont deny that the breakup had happened.
it may seem difficult to accept that the
love eu tot wud last for the rest of ur life had such an abrupt end,
but the sooner eu accept e fact tat the r/s is over, e better it is for eu!
Dont lose urself in self-pity, or keep asking yourself why things turn out this way.
just try to get used to the idea that eu are single-for now.
2) Cry Your Heart Out
Crying may seem the most obvious things to do,
but there are times that it's not easy to cry even though eu really want to.
eu could still be v numb abt the experience,
or eu cud be in denial of losing someone eu really love
eu might even want to act tough and show to urself and all those around eu
that eu dont care about the breakup-ur partner means nth to eu, eu may say.
Holding on to ur anger will only cause urself more stress, and end up feeling miserable.
So, Let urself CRY!
After a good cry, eu'll not only feel relieved, but also be able to eat and sleep alot easier.
Avoid going to places that remind eu of ur ex if eu think that it will make matter worse.
3) Time for Friends
Its no matter hu left whom, or how much love there was between two partners
the hurt that comes from a breakup often seems insurmountable
its impossible to go thru a breakup w/o the support of friends
These are people hu love eu, support eu, and know eu better than anybody!
They'll always know ur back - they saw eu falling in love, know the full story of wad happened - so they will be willing to listen to eu and help eu thru this rough patch.
Be A Friend
Getting thru a breakup isnt easy, and friends play a big part in the recovery process. If u've got a friend hu is going thru a particularly difficult breakup, here's what eu can do to help him or her out!
- Spend time w ur friend, Make an effort to have long chats on the phone. text to see how they are, and meeting up is the ideal way of being there for them.
- Encourage ur friends to talk things out, and be a good listener. Make sure eu have lotsa tissue in hands.
- Try distracting ur friend out of misery. Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities and games are good ways. - avoid going to places they went with their ex before.
- bring ur friend out n indulge in chocolates, massages, facials, shopping sprees, or even arcade games tgt - whatever lets him or her concentrate on pleasure instead of pain.
- Send a card, give a call or text them to lift ur friend's spirits if eu cant be there in person. Let them noe eu are there for them.
- Be patient. some things take a long time to get over. Dont hurry them to get over the pain even though eu mean well, because they are already under enuff stress as it is!
YYY
im lOving iiu .
1:40 PM
